You know what?
Kudos. To every single one of you.
Because the amount of time and energy it actually takes to be a good person and friend is significant, and I feel like nobody talks about it. It's supposed to just be effortless as long as you're "truly" good, right? But come on, let's be real here!
CARING IS A LOT OF WORK.
Being around is a lot of work. Thinking carefully about your words when they matter or contemplating how best to comfort a friend in pain is stressful. Being able to have a fun and upbeat conversation even when you're sick, exhausted, upset, or having a bad day-- that takes some determination, gosh darn!
Talking about